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And I don’t even feel better. Whinge.

Rob and Sez’s cousin had her baby last night!! We woke up to the msg this morning, another one to visit

In other news, work is slow but not entirely bum, and I’m waiting for my bond refund cheque from Student Housing to clear since I only banked it today. Yay cash

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I completely forgot to post about Ben and Tiff’s new baby! (Not the Boy meets Girl couple.) Little Lukas Jacob is now 3weeks old and growing rediculously I visited for a cuddle last week and he’s just beautiful. His birthday was the 5th January, same day as my cousin. I cant wait to see him again! Might see if they’re available next week some time while I’m on days off..

Rob’s cousin’s baby is due soon too.. We were betting on yesterday but alas, no Aus Day baby.. So impatient!! Apparently things are moving though, so we’re all waiting by the phones.. Or I am anyway

I think thats enough baby news for a while.. My parents will worry
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Work is slow. Pay is good. Lorna is wearing a flag

We’re heading up to Kings Park for the sky works tonight. Not sure if I’m all that excited yet.. The company should be good, and we’ve got dinner and nibbles organised, but I’m not sure if I’m bothering with a camera yet as its trusty film and to get a decent fireworks photo I’d need a tripod and people tend to stand right infront of them. I would love to get some nice photos, but going on last year I’d just end up with photos of the backs of random’s heads.. How inconvenient.

The house hunt is as yet non-existant. Its my job to get as much info out of the banks as possible and then see if I can beat their offers with something from a mortgage broker, but I’ve not got around to actually calling the banks yet. My own stupid fault. I’m just having a whinge.

If something exciting occurs I’ll let you know
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I tried to be a bit objective about the last post, but I obviously have an opinion.

As Boy is my friend, obviously I side with Boy. It can be said that I’m biased, but I just don’t see how a twat who took off at the first sign of a child has more right to be there than the guy actually acting like a father.

As a girl, I wouldn’t just let the boys sort it out. If I were left pregnant and alone, then found someone who accepted that and wanted to be with me anyway, the original Sperm Donor could go jump. It takes more than just DNA to be a father.

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My mate’s girlfriend has just had a baby. But its a little convoluted.

Boy meets Girl when Girl is three months pregnant. Girl tells boy she’s three months along, but noticing that girl is a great person and that Sperm Donor is nowhere in sight, Boy hangs around and falls for her in a fair sized way. Boy goes from “pub player” to “works with handicapped kids” in about six months flat and does more growing up in that time than he has over his last 24+ years. (Shocked the hell out of many of us!)

Boy helps Girl out. He’s there for a chat or a hug when she needs it, does the Maccas run when Jr decides its time (no pickles) and further into the relationship (pregnancy) is the one rubbing Girls back as Jr grows and needs more space (and decides he’d like the space currently occupied by Girl’s spine.)

All along, Sperm Donor has been no-where in sight. He left the moment he found out about Jr, vowing only to come back for the birth. After which he wants nothing to do with it other than the payments he will owe. Girl thinks this is perfect, as Sperm Donor is a twat.

So just the other day, Girl has Jr at 4am. Sperm Donor turns up (as he said he would) and as the father is able to stay at the hospital. Boy, after getting Girl there, and going through everything with her in the last six months, waits to meet Jr.

Here’s the part I’d like your opinion on. I’ll post mine at a later time.

Sperm Donor starts throwing his weight around, and orders Boy not to be allowed in Girl’s hospital room.

As the father, Sperm Donor is clearly within his rights- as far as the hospital is concerned. Boy leaves, and in doing so peacefully, shows hospital that he is no threat and simply goes back at another time to meet Jr. Between these times he was quite ready to separate Sperm Donors head from his shoulders, but after meeting Jr and consequently melting, Boy has decided he’ll just wait for Sperm Donor to bugger off again so Boy can be with Girl again in peace.

Now, I don’t know Girl’s opinion on all this. By other accounts, she’s so into being a first time Mum that she’s just waiting for the boys to sort it out for themselves. Not what I’d do, but its a fair way to handle it. She doesn’t need stress.

Love to hear your take on it.
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Banks, and their websites, are boring as hell. And most are not idiot-friendly. There is just so much junk to shuffle through, and then very little useful info waiting at the bottom of the pile.

In an attempt to get away from the computer (it was that or throw the shuttle, sorry sweety) I dusted off my bike and went for a ride. About a half hour- 45mins later, I kinda colapsed into a chair for a bit thinking how insanely stupid an idea that had been. But I think I’ll try to keep it up. Now that I’ve made it out once, it’ll be easier to get out again. And I didn’t fall off, a big ++

Went to the outdoor theatre at Burswood to see Serenity last night. Love love love it! Good thing it was outdoor, Fez and I didn’t shut up for most of it!! I can only imagine how annoying that musta been. Sorry guys!! The couple that actually organised the trip couldn’t make it in the end, so we shall just have to go again next week methinks. Gosh darn *slaps knee*

Now I must eat. Its the middle of the day and for a change I have an appetite. This puzzles me.

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Its ok, I’m a leaf on the wind!

So its taken me a while but here it is for all of y’all that don’t see my boyfriend’s family’s journals.

A guy who was my best mate through highschool in Perth got home last Thursday night to find his mum dead. Her partner has been charged, and all we can hope is that justice will be done. There was nothing anyone could do for her at the scene.

Kylie was Rob’s mum’s best friend. She’s been by her side through Bren’s whole tumour ordeal, visiting, comforting, ironing even.. She’s been there for all of us too.

She will be dearly missed.
RIP Kylie.
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